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Saturday Snapshot: Rediscovered “Leashes”

Cheryl over at Twinfatuation hosts this one too. Have a look at what others are doing on this fine Saturday. 🙂

While waiting for Mommy to put Logan down for his nap, Burke and Maggie rediscovered a long-ago favorite way to go for a walk:

Rediscovered Leashes

Rediscovered Leashes

Anger Management

Funny movie. Not great to deal with in real life.

Burke has been having some trouble lately…he’s been lashing out when he gets angry – and poor Maggie has been the one to take the ‘beating’ from him.

Over the past week, the following things have happened:

  • Maggie beat Burke up the stairs, so he bit her back as hard as he could (major bruises). I’m not sure Maggie even knew they were competing.
  • Maggie was hording the balls, so Burke hit her in the head with a (plastic) baseball bat. He lost fireworks privileges that night. (Our town has two nights of them and he saw the first night, so he knew what he was missing.)
  • Maggie was holding the hose to fill up the kiddie pool and wouldn’t share with Burke (after 10 seconds!)…so he hooked his finger into her mouth and brought her to the ground.

On the flip side, he’s also gone in to soothe Logan on multiple mornings. And the nanny tells me that he had a paper towel tube that he wanted Maggie to look through at him and she wouldn’t. He was using his words and saying “please, Please, PLEASE, Maggie??” And she still wouldn’t. So he said “I’m very angry!” but didn’t take any action. (This was in between the biting incident and the baseball bat incident.)

There doesn’t seem to be any rhyme or reason to when he does or doesn’t take action (sometimes he’s tired, sometimes he’s not. Sometimes he’s had too much sugar, other times he hasn’t). All of these situations have produced varying results.

I try to let him know that the anger he is feeling is absolutely okay, but that the action he is taking is not.

Any ideas out there?

Baby Picture Sundays

Debi hosts the Baby Picture Sundays. Hop on over there to see who’s playing, and join in too!

This week’s theme is Temper, Temper. How much fun could I have with this?? 🙂

Burke 11.6.2008

Burke 11.6.2008

Logan 3.4.2009 (squirrel induced tantrum)

Logan 3.4.2009 (squirrel induced tantrum)

Maggie 7.5.2009 "I want to throw the ball!"

Maggie 7.5.2009
"I want to throw the ball!"

Thursday Theater: Reading

Goddess hosts Thursday Theater. Wanna join in? Go add your name to the list!

The other day, Burke told me he wanted to read his Three Little Pig story. I said, “Okay…be right there.” He grabbed the book and when I got into the room, this is what I saw. (With Maggie tap-dancing in the background…)

(1 minute plus stupid OneTrueMedia wrapper)

Brotherly Love

This morning, at 6:45, I heard Logan wake up through the monitor. (He’s not so quiet when he wakes up.) My policy is that I don’t go in to get any of the kids until the clock reads at least 7:00.

As I was pondering whether to go in and try to calm him down or just ignore him for 15 minutes, I heard the Twins’ door open. My immediate thought was, “Oh man. Logan woke Burke up…Burke’s going to come jump into bed with us now.” And waited to hear the door open.

Well…I DID hear a door open, but it wasn’t our’s… it was Logan’s door. And then I heard the following conversation:

Burke: Do you want the light on?
Logan: Nooooo!
Burke: Do you want a blanket?
Logan: Nooooo!
Burke: Do you want another paci?
Logan: Paci!!

And Burke kept talking with him for 10 – 15 minutes. Go Burke 🙂

Thursday Theater: Gym Class

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The twins had the first day of their second gym class yesterday. As I knew they would, they had a BLAST!

Burke is in a blue shirt, Maggie is in a pink shirt (with pig tails).

(2 minutes – plus stupid OneTrueMedia wrapper)

Thursday Theater: Camping

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The twins have been asking to go camping for a few weeks now. We had some good weather yesterday, so Mike decided to drag the tent outside and give it a try.

(1 minute, 30 seconds – because of the OneTrueMedia wrappers)

And a still picture to round it all out.

Maggie and Burke - Camping

Maggie and Burke - Camping

Way Back When-esday

Cheryl over at Twinfatuation hosts this one. Go on over to see who else is playing – and join in too!

I’m not sure of the specific date for this one, but it was obviously not too long after the twins came home from the hospital…so perhaps mid-February, 2005.

The Zimmer Zoo 2005

The Zimmer Zoo 2005

Thursday Theater: At the Aquarium

Goddess hosts Thursday Theater. Wanna join in? Go add your name to the list!

This is from our day at the Aquarium. Again, it’s from my cell phone, so the quality isn’t great. (That and I haven’t figured out how to upload my video from my phone to YouTube and not have  it stretch out…)

(34 seconds)

Shake Dance

We were in the back yard yesterday when Burke spritzed Logan with the hose. (Still not sure if it was an accident or not…) The rule is if you spray anyone who doesn’t want to be sprayed, the water is turned off. Obviously, this didn’t sit well with Burke and he did his usual “run away crying” thing followed by some screeching.

When I finally caught up to him I asked, “Why are you screeching, Burke?”

His response? “Shake Dance.”

He was screeching because he knew that the last few times he got frustrated and screeched, we broke into the Shake Off The Frustration Dance – and he really liked it. NOW all we have to do is teach him that asking for the dance rather than screeching is the way to go.

How’d we get him to do the Dance, you ask? Simple, really. Fishful Thinking helped!

Have you been following along with Fishful Thinking? Has it been helpful to you?